If you've reached a point where "enough is enough" and you are wanting some reinforcement to help change a certain pattern in your behavior or life, here's a unique way to facilitate that change.  When you've identified a pattern you want to change in your life, make one small gesture that expresses your intent to change.  Then do the following:  On the first night of the Full Moon, jot down your desire on a sheet of paper in an ink of a color that seems appropriate for what you want (for instance, if you want to be more creative in your professional life, use gold ink, for a change in your financial situation, use green ink.)  Then light two candles of a color close to the color of ink you have used.  Read your wish out loud three times.   Back the words with emotion, as if you really mean them.  Tuck your written desire under a power object that has significance for you.  Let the candles burn out naturally.  On the second night of the full moon, light two more candles of the same color.  Repeat your wish three times.  Then touch the paper to one of the flames and say:  As this paper is burning, I release my wish, my need.  My deepest yearnings.  A new life's seed.  When the second set of candles has burned on their own, toss them out.   Source: The Everything Spells & Charms Book by Trish MacGregor.